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Writer's pictureDavid J Hermiz MD

Navigating Acute Stress Disorder During Divorce: A Comprehensive Approach to Healing


By Dr. David J Hermiz, MD


Divorce can be an incredibly challenging life event, causing acute stress disorder (ASD) in many individuals. The emotional turmoil stemming from uncertainty, custody battles, financial strain, dramatic changes in relationships, allegations of abuse or neglect, emotional scarring, and domestic violence can leave deep wounds. As a modern psychiatrist, I employ various evidence-based modalities to help individuals suffering from ASD during divorce find healing, regain control, and establish healthy boundaries. In this article, we will explore the signs and symptoms of ASD, strategies for setting boundaries, and essential steps to embark on the journey of healing.


Acute Stress Disorder (ASD) is characterized by a range of emotional, behavioral, and physical symptoms that emerge within one month after a traumatic event. In the context of divorce, some common signs of ASD may include intense anxiety, intrusive thoughts or flashbacks related to the divorce proceedings, difficulty sleeping, irritability, avoidance of reminders associated with the divorce, and heightened vigilance. Recognizing these signs is crucial as it enables individuals to seek timely help.


During a divorce, establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries is paramount to one's well-being. Here are a few strategies that can prove beneficial:

  1. Identify your limits: Reflect on what you are comfortable with and establish clear boundaries to protect your emotional and mental health. This may involve limiting contact with toxic or abusive individuals, creating personal space, or seeking legal advice to ensure your rights are respected.

  2. Practice assertive communication: Clearly express your needs, concerns, and boundaries while maintaining respectful and constructive dialogue. Learning assertive communication techniques can empower you to navigate challenging conversations with ex-partners, lawyers, or child custody evaluators effectively.

  3. Seek support: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or support groups who can provide a safe space for you to process your emotions and offer guidance. Professional therapy, such as individual counseling or group therapy, can also provide invaluable support during this tumultuous time.

Recovering from ASD during a divorce requires time, patience, and a multidimensional approach. Here are essential steps to embark on the journey of healing:

  1. Self-care and stress management: Prioritize self-care activities such as exercise, healthy eating, mindfulness, and relaxation techniques. Engaging in activities that bring joy and peace can help reduce stress and promote emotional well-being.

  2. Psychotherapy modalities: Evidence-based therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) have shown efficacy in treating ASD. These modalities help individuals reframe negative thoughts, process traumatic experiences, and develop coping strategies to navigate the challenges of divorce.

  3. Legal and financial support: Consulting with legal professionals specializing in family law can provide clarity and guidance on navigating custody battles, financial matters, and the complex legal processes associated with divorce. Seeking financial counseling can also alleviate concerns related to financial stability and planning for the future.

  4. Embracing new relationships and opportunities: Divorce often signifies the beginning of a new chapter in life. Embracing new relationships, pursuing personal goals, and exploring new hobbies or interests can facilitate growth, empowerment, and a renewed sense of purpose.

While divorce can be an overwhelming and traumatic experience, there is hope for healing and recovery from acute stress disorder. By recognizing the signs and symptoms, setting healthy boundaries, and embarking on a multidimensional healing journey, individuals can regain control, find inner strength, and build a fulfilling future. Remember, seeking professional help and support is not a sign of weakness but a courageous step toward reclaiming your well-being.

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